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“I enjoy helping couples find deeper intimacy, friendship and connection in their relationship and have found that so much of our past traumas and insecurities can be healed through a positive, loving, genuine relationship”.
  • Shadee Lauer

Shadee Lauer

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor

I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and have been licensed in New Mexico since 2011. I received my Master’s Degree in Counselor Education and my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology with a minor in Family Studies both from The University of New Mexico. Also, I have completed focused training in Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Gottman Couples Therapy.  I spent the first 10 years of my career working primarily with individuals who struggled with substance dependence and had the honor of running Relapse Prevention groups as well as Parenting Groups. My current focus and passion is working with couples.

I was born in Lincoln, Nebraska and spent the early part of my childhood growing up in Phoenix, AZ. My father immigrated to the United States from Iran when he was 18 years old and he met my mother, a small-town girl from the Midwest. My Persian culture has always been a huge part of my life and a central piece of my cultural identity. I love to take part in the traditional holidays and celebrations and have a strong connection with the Persian community in New Mexico.

I believe that growing up with parents who come from two very different parts of the world has helped me have an openness to diversity. I love learning about other people’s backgrounds and families and have a deep respect for traditions, cultural norms and how two very different people can come together and create a beautiful relationship and family.

In my free time I like to spend time with my family, tend to our garden, arrange flowers, paint, go shopping and listen to music.

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PRICING PLANS

Fees per Session

INDIVIDUAL
$
125
50 mins
  • Schedule a live session at a time that is convenient
  • Messaging, phone or video
  • Message therapist any time, from anywhere.
COUPLES
$
135
50 mins
  • Schedule a live session at a time that is convenient
  • Messaging, phone or video
  • Message therapist any time, from anywhere.
TEEN
$
95
50 mins
  • Schedule a live session at a time that is convenient
  • Messaging, phone or video
  • Message therapist any time, from anywhere.
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TESTIMONIALS

In Their Own Words

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REVIEW FOR:

Lindsey Barela

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Lindsey Barela is an inspired therapist. She and I began working together shortly after my adult son suffered a life altering spinal cord injury. His accident was, of course, devastating and the ramifications were daunting. Every minute of every day felt hard in one way or another. But somehow, every minute of every hour with Lindsey felt gentle. No matter how much anger, fear, resentment or even denial I brought into session each harsh emotion was warmly greeted and gently accepted by Lindsey. Her skilled client-centered approach and confidence in client agency made all the difference in my ability to now find and feel joy pretty much every single day.
M.D.
Client
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REVIEW FOR:

Lindsey Barela

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I have been seeing Lindsey for 3 years now. I have felt more comfortable and at ease in her care than I ever have in any previous mental health therapist’s care. Having a tremendous amount of trauma to work through has been challenging but with the support, insight, fortitude and encouragement from Lindsey I have been able to tackle these issues head on. I have seen life-altering changes in my behaviors that have positively contributed to my own growth and feelings of self-worth. I HIGHLY recommend Lindsey to anyone who is ready to begin talk therapy. Thank you to Lindsey for the immeasurable benefit you have added to my life.
S. F.
Client